Almost everybody, at one point or another as they begin, asks a difficult question: What should I do with all the excess possessions I am removing from my home and life?
Should I sell them or donate them?
While each person will ultimately make that decision for themselves:
If you don’t desperately need the money, you should always donate to a local charity whose mission you believe in. The only exceptions are valuable items or large items you are unable to transport yourself.
This is the solution that benefits the most amount of people: both you and the world around you.
Consider these reasons why it’s better to donate your clutter rather than sell it:
1. Trying to resell your clutter only adds time, stress, (and frustration) to an already burdensome process.
Let’s face it, the process of decluttering a home (for most people) is not a simple journey. It took my wife and I nine months to finally get through every room in our home.
If you’ve spent several decades of your life accumulating stuff, getting rid of it is not going to be an overnight process. It’s going to take hard work and intentional focus.
Unfortunately, trying to resell everything you remove from your home takes even more work: snapping pictures, posting online, answering questions, bartering price, meeting buyers, getting ghosted…
To make matters even worse, the amount of money we think we’re going to make for each item rarely materializes—so the frustration builds.
Again, exceptions can and should be made for particularly valuable items, but for the most part, the effort is rarely worth the financial return.
2. Donating your unused possessions provides benefit to others.
Our excess can become a blessing to other people. The items in our closets, our drawers, our basement, or even in the back of our cupboard—almost anything that is still usable—can be used by somebody else. Even if you have no need for an item anymore, almost always somebody in your immediate community can be using it.
Refugee families, single parents, foster children, battered women, the homeless… the list goes on.
Most people want to be generous. According to a new survey, only 26% of Americans think they’ll be happiest if they focus most on themselves.
So it’s a pretty small percentage of people who don’t want to be generous. This is a characteristic we want to be true of us.
The problem is, for many people, they can’t find the financial margin to become generous. But at the same time, our homes are filled with things we don’t need, items we’ve collected, possessions we’ve accumulated that are unneeded by us.
Those items can become the very opportunity we need to become more generous—and in very specific ways, they can bring help to people and causes in our community—especially when we are quick to donate.
3. Generosity encourages even more decluttering!
When we declutter our possessions, we find margin for generosity—not just while we are removing possessions, but as our lives change in the future.
But I’ve discovered that generosity is not just the byproduct of decluttering, it can also become the very motivating factor that helps us declutter even more.
A woman shared her story with me several years ago. She began,
“Look, I’ve been trying to declutter for several months and I’ve actually done a pretty good job of it. I’ve been through many of the rooms in my home. But my closet and my wardrobe, were always going to be the toughest space for me. I love clothes. I love fashion. I knew even before I started I was going to have a hard time getting rid of clothes.
Until now, I have not tackled it in any way. However, just last week, everything changed. I was driving downtown, and I happened to drive by our city’s battered women’s shelter. I don’t think I had ever noticed it before. But on that day, I began thinking about the building. I thought about the women living inside, many of whom escaped in the middle of the night from an abusive relationship, with nothing but the clothes on their back and their children in their arms. I saw them leaving, maybe even running, until they found this safe space.
As I thought of the women in the shelter, my mind raced back to my closet—full of beautiful clothes that I hardly ever wear. It occurred to me how much dignity, and how much beauty, and how much honor those clothes could bestow upon those women.
And that thought changed everything for me! I went home, grabbed a bag, and couldn’t fill it fast enough. I found another bag and filled it immediately. The next day, I took several bags of my finest clothes to this women’s shelter, knowing that they needed them more than me. Not just physically, but emotionally as well. They needed them more than I did.
If you have recently discovered the joy of owning less and are beginning the process of decluttering, might I make a suggestion: If you don’t desperately need the money, donate the possessions you are discarding. Find a local charity that you believe in, and donate there.
You will benefit yourself, you will find motivation in the act, and you will bring a positive change to the world around you. Win-win-win!